Updated: Oct 24, 2019
Most of us including me had experience that knowing someone wasn't right fit but you jsut can't leave. Your ration is disconnected with your emotion. So does my client!
Her Highest Priority Intention: Treat her colleague just like ordinary friend. Emotions are not affected by him.
Muscle testing showed she had 2 layers of patterns. 1st pattern was "Fractured Boundaries Pattern" and underneath is "Reversed Belief Pattern".
My client told me that she never thought her father had such great impact on her life until this session. She grew up in a single family and never met her father. She doesn't even know subconsciously she feet not wanted and unlovable. She also had belief that "Extreme pleasure is followed by sorrow". The interaction with her colleague triggered her childhood belief of not wanted and unlovable. If I wasn't good enough? That's why I wan't important? That's why he treated me like this? Only after unblocking this bottom layer pattern, we could effectively deal with "Fractured Boundaries Pattern", which occurs when a person has had a significant trauma that it fractures the person's energy field.
Muscle testing also showed it occured at her age 11 and related to parents. My client however had no clue of what happened then. Through body sensation, she told me a story: Without father's help, her mom took care of whole family including her grandma, the sister and cousins. Mom worked very hard with no one help. She was angry at herself and every single person living with her. She felt/saw herself sitting in front of desk in her childhood room where exactly reminded her of age 11. ( The process of Life Centered Therapy brings you to the "root cause story" is very similar like the trance in hypnotherapy. )
My client told me she never thought her father had such great impact on her life b'coz they never met. However the fact was so far away from what she thought. Certain memories she no long remembered also had deeply and invisibly affected her life.
After a month, she told me she could see through the relationship with her colleague; he has less and less influences on her. What a therapist does is to help the client find out the problem they're stuck and see through it. After all, everyone has to make their own decision.
Every session in order to have long lasting healing result, I'll balance your energy with the intervention(s) after we find the root caused story.
I'm here to be with you and help you!